Hey, I’m Eric! A counsellor who primarily works with men and persons in trades who have grown used to carrying weight—responsibility, expectation, quiet pressure. Those who appear steady on the outside, but inside feel stuck, exhausted or disconnected. If this sounds true to you, you are not alone.
Before becoming a counsellor, I spent 15 years in construction. I learned that even strong structural systems need maintenance and care. The same is true with our internal systems. I don’t see therapy as tearing things down, I see it as rework. Tending to what’s strained, reinforcing what’s strong, and reshaping what no longer fits.
My approach is rooted in experiential parts work, (Internal Family Systems) so that change isn’t just something you understand, it’s something you feel. Together, we’ll get to know all the different parts of you, learn the roles they have taken on within your system, and how to differentiate a part from your deeper self.
In your system, there may be parts that guard, parts that flare, parts that go quiet, and parts that carry old hurt—but there are no bad parts. Each one formed with a single purpose: to protect you. As we grow, these forms of protection often require change . Our work isn’t about exiling or shaming, but about listening closely to parts, improving communication to self, and restoring balance to your system. As these self-to-part relationships deepen, your system begins to trust. This trust frees your parts to let go of their long held roles and to take on new ones. Roles that stop trying to protect who you used to be, and start supporting who you are today.
It may not feel like it, but there is wisdom in knowing when carrying it all is no longer strength. When instead, that strength becomes the permission you give yourself to set it all down. To find a place to sit, be understood, to feel light. You are here. And you don’t have to carry it alone.
